Saturday, May 9, 2009

Separation Anxiety

Arianna is having a separation anxiety. She would cry and scream when she wont see me or hubby around her. This happened for over a week now. Yes, when this happens I keep my patience longer. But when I lost my patience I would scream as well using my dialect, as in muyawyaw jud ko sa kalagot. Hubby said that we just let her cries for 10 minutes or so, so we can rest. When hubby is at work and only me and Bienne at home, sometimes I would like to cry not because I’m sad but because I don’t know what to do with Arianna to tame her. I did everything that would make her contented. I don’t understand why she has to cry even if she’s not hungry, even if she has dry diaper, or even if she has toys around her. She likes to be held most of the time. She’s not easy to take care in some point. I should be strong physically in order for me to survive everyday. Sometimes, I don’t have time to cook, and no time to do what I need to because all my time is to baby sit Arianna. Hubby said one time that I don’t have a life anymore if I won’t let her cry so she’ll get tired and she falls asleep. Yes, she does nap but only for few minutes. The bottom line of this post is that I love Arianna so much and I wish that one day she would change and doesn’t cry anymore and I hope she’ll nap for three straight hours during the day. Gosh, being a mom is not easy. You don’t understand what I’m saying if you are not a mother yet.
PS : The good thing though is that when we are out of the house (park,pool,mall,or any store), she is so kind. She'll just sit on the stroller and looking around.

5 comments:

texas_sweetie said...

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY Twerl! I hear you! Kahibaw kos imong gibati. Huh mo singka ug mosinggit pud diay ka ha? Abi ko ug ako ra although I do that different reason pertaining to Jadyn kay grabi bataa sukdon akong pasensya pud oi cge hold ug food sa iya baba hangtud magtulo iya laway ug pinogong.

Ang makalagot kay d raba e luwa ug ako ingnon eluwa. anha noon ipagawas ug d ka ready mo saw sa iyang gi ugom nya loud kau tan awn kay magbulit ang sinina.

hahayzzz kalami jud tunob tunoban lagi ug d palang taw hehe.. bad au ko sa?

Don't worry about Arianna's behavior kay mausab rana. magdaku sila magka anam pud usab ila ugali.

Joy0z said...

Pastilan kabalo na ko nganu na..gianad man laag2x mao na hehehe. Mao sab na nahitabo sa akoa youngest oy.Perte gusto segi gawas sauna sa QC pa me. Maayo nalang akoa Mama og si Hubby kay kugi kaayo mobitbit..Dagko man sila bukton noon. HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TWERL. Yeah its hard to be a mum. Imagine me with three boys.

anne said...

Girl ing ana kau si faith pero ok ra na molabay lang na siya, I understand what you feel si faith gani sometimes mag ing ana gihapon sus moatubang na lang gani ko ug altar ug mangau ug tabang sa ginoo haist

Myrna said...

Lyn, experienced japon na nako na akong anak maghilaka na wlay rason. Ang tawag ana "COLIC" sos mabuang jud ko'g kinudkod,tabyog o unsa pa para lng mahilom. Tapos pag ingon nko na gusto ka effecacent or Manzanilla? na mura nakasabot sad tawon. So ako gihaplasan Lyn mura intawon nakapahilom niya. So makaingon ko usahay na ang bata maghilaka tingod kay dli sila kasabot s ilaha tiyan. Labi na if magtutoy sila nato tapos ato pagkaon bisan unsa nlang. So try haplasi ana Lyn. For me its help a lot! take care1

Myrna said...

Tapos abi nimo Lyn mga bata dri i separate man pagkatulog, ah ako dli oi! ako iabay. amo taliwad-an hahaha!mingawon man ko ug akong bana kung wla ang bata s among kiliran. Maayo ni i abay kay dli kapoy cge bakod kung maghilak. ako lang lainan habol pra inighabol nko dli sad siya matabunan hehe! Inig ka adlaw lang s crib nko ibutang ky mahulog unya mukamang nara hahaha!